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The
Vanitha Sahaya Vani comprises of :
- Volunteers provided by NGOs
VANITHA SAHYA VANI CASE
STUDIES
1. Srikala aged 40
yrs working in a Government Department approached with all hesitation,
married to a businessman and has a daughter of 14 yrs. Only one year she was
happy married life. Husband met with sudden loss, started relaxing, consuming
alcohol. Slowly he has addicted to it, then he started visiting Turf Club
hoping to get back his lost money. But he started losing more and more. He
used to come home late in the night and harasses his wife for sex. He was
sadist at that time. Next day he used to suspect her seeing all the marks on
her body that other have used her. Srikala couldn't tolerate his sexual
harassment and his nagging behavior.
Srikala depressed and
frustrated many time though of committing suicide. At last she asked the help
of Vanitha Sahayavani.
2. Shanthamma working
in HMT Factory, married 13 yrs back and having one daughter of 11 yrs. They
are living together for years with a break of 2 yrs in between lot of
misunderstanding developed, husband and in-laws started suspecting her and
had false perception towards her. Due to harassment, mentally and physically
she had to depart from them because husband's partiality towards parents and
neglected her in all aspects. At the crisis time when she had no hoped to
live she approached Vanitha sahayavani for help. Counselling session helped
the entire family to realize their mistakes and daughter in laws rights,
status in the family.
The couple were
reconciled and are happy, Counsellor visited their house for follow-up.
3. Sumalatha aged
about 28 yrs belonged to a middle class family. She completed her B.ED in
Chitradurga. She got married to Nataraj working and residing in Bangalore. Mr.Nataraj
lived in joint family, consisting of himself, his mother, elder sister and
her husband. After the marriage to Sumalatha he claimed to live in joint
family. There was no problem for her during the first year of marriage.
Problem started after she became pregnant. For the reason her husband
and husband's sister started harassing her. Even her mother in law also
joined them. To her bad luck, they convinced her husband and finally she got
pregnancy terminated. AB days advanced. Nataraj's brother in law started
making advanced, he may create more problems to her, instead if she agrees,
he will set right her marital life. They somehow convinced Nataraj for second
marriage and gradually Nataraj started sleeping separately. Sumalatha felt
that they might be eying on property and hence they don't want her to deliver
a child. When her husband's brother in laws advances became too much and
family members harassment became unbearable. She complained to Vanitha
Sahyavani , counsellors at Vanitha Sahayavani counselled her and other family
members also they were warned of legal consequence of their behavior.
Presently there is a change in their behavior of her family members.
Harassment has come down no discussion about second marriage to her husband.
She says thanks to the intervention of Vanitha sahaya vani. She desires for a
better quality marital life.
4. Komala a 20 year
old married girl. Her father is a senior officer in Government of Karnatka.
She has one younger sister. While "studying in 2nd PUC she came to
contact with an auto driver who resides in the same locality. She used to be
friendly with him as he belongs to the same area. Frequency of contact
increased. He started frequenting her in the college also. In one such
meeting he proposed to her, but she refused. She did not mention about this
to her parents. But he continued to meet her. One day, in the morning, while
she was putting Rongoli in the courtyard of her house, he came in an auto and
kidnapped her. He kept her in a room, raped her. He threatened her with dire
consequences if she tells her parents. She kept on crying. He took pity on
her, took her to Register office and forced her to married her. After 10-12
days he brought her and left her in her parents house. In the meantime her
parents complained to the police about her disappearance. After listening to
her story, they approved the marriage and kept both daughter and son in law
with them. After a few days of staying with them, suddenly, one day without
give her any clue, her husband disappeared from home. Till now they do
not know here he is and what he is doing. On enquiry they found that he
cheated another girl and kill her. Komala and her parents approached Vanitha
Sahayavani for help. Since they could not trace the where about of her husband
a case has been filed in the family court for divorce. She is awaiting courts
verdict for divorce. She was counselld by Counselors to stand her own. Komala
desires to study MBA.
STATISTICAL REPORT OF
FAMILY COUNSELLING CENTRE FOR THE MONTH OF AUGUST - 2010
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1) Cases
referred to family counselling Centre in the month of
April 2009
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95
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2) Cases
referred to Police Station
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1
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3) Cases
referred to short stay homes
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2
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4) Cases
referred to Legal Panel
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3
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TOTAL
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113
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a. Number of Cases
Pending in the month of March - 2009
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95
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b. Number of
telephone counselling in the month of April
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22
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c. Number of New
Cases entered in the month of April -
2009
( 9 cases referred by Jana Samparka Sabha
)
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113
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TOTAL
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230
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Number of Cases
disposed in the month of April
2009
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90
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NEW
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45
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OLD
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50
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Number of Cases
Pending in the month of April
2009
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102
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NEW
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62
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OLD
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40
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TYPE OF
CASES .
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1. Marital
Disharmony
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55
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2. Pre
Marital Problem
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02
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3. Extra
Marital Relation
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15
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4. Dowry
Harassment
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18
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5. Alcoholic /
Psychiatric Problem
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16
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6. Others ( Cheating
& Finance Tenent & owner )
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1
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TOTAL
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107
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NATURE OF CASES DISPOSED.
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NEW
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OLD
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1.
Reconcilliation
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15
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15
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2.
Settlement
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05
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07
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3. Ref to
Legal Aid Board
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07
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07
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4. Ref to Police
Station
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05
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08
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5.
Rehabilitation /Psychiatrist
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05
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05
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6. Ref to Other
FCC
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-
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-
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7. Drop
outs
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08
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13
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TOTAL
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45
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55
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